when vest friends meets

Deepa Nambiar: Hi swaroop

me: hi

online

Deepa Nambiar: ss

me: what a unbelieveable thing

give me ur ph no

Sent at 18:16 on Saturday

Deepa Nambiar: tell me gt disconnected

me: ok, I feared u escaped

as I askd ph no

Deepa Nambiar: was abut to run away

as usual like in college days

me: laughing

why so?

Deepa Nambiar: fine

keep laughing

me: thanks dear

Deepa Nambiar: what to say...

how is aditi and neel

me: I am so happy

they r fine

Deepa Nambiar: what happened to ramya..not well

me: she died of suicide

due to autoimmuno dis, she was upset

badsha ramya

r u busy?

Sent at 18:21 on Saturday

Deepa Nambiar: sorry

ar u busy in the clinic

are u there

me: im always online but in clininc

how r u?

send ur photo

plz

Deepa Nambiar: why are u behind photo

me: if im online , it means im at clinic

Deepa Nambiar: kk

me: thats a good question

im not behind it, im just asking it

Deepa Nambiar: dnt get angry..i will send u as time permits

me: i wont get angry

I am so happy to see u online

Deepa Nambiar: ur mail was very good

me: laughing

why?

Deepa Nambiar: but still weight gain is a big problem for at least ladies

me: I hav bad habbit of writing long

i am 95!

Deepa Nambiar: buddha ho gaya

me: 55-95 in 10 yrs

laughing

Deepa Nambiar: where are u staying

me: did u not see chinni kam

no one get old by age or size!

Deepa Nambiar: no..

me: i stay in bangalore

rented house

Deepa Nambiar: by heart and mind ur younger...that means

me: I will die very late, as I will alwaysremain like this

Deepa Nambiar: may god bless ur dream...u can see the faces of ur grandchildren and then die

me: but enough with life!

leave death

Deepa Nambiar: why saying like this

left

me: now a days, I feel my lifehas no value

Deepa Nambiar: how cme u r havng hepatomegaly and hydronephrosis

me: I am just an useless person

eating habbits

Deepa Nambiar: just disgusting

dnt talk like this

u have a small child and u should think of him...

me: really see, I am not doing any good thing

I cant control over my anger

Deepa Nambiar: ur treating animals ie good enough

me: I am knowing that

but personally not happy for my bad characters

anger, impulsiveness.........

I dont know when god will mature me

Deepa Nambiar: that everyone has their own quota of anger and depression and other bad habits

me: true

Deepa Nambiar: ur not the only man

me: thanks

Deepa Nambiar: dnt talk like this anymore ur a brave man

me: ok

Deepa Nambiar: take care of ur health and eat healthy food

me: I am but very sad as I had been very angry with my wifeand kid

Deepa Nambiar: in college we cud not becoem good friends but now we can be good friends in life

me: I have very tiring days as I stay out 9-11pm

when come, I cant bear little things too

Deepa Nambiar: ss i know that..but still u should time for ur family also

me: andmake everyone sad

I always consider u as a good person, and perfect candidate for a best friend

Deepa Nambiar: dnt think negatively

not a perfect candidate

me: I did not get u

Deepa Nambiar: dnt think negatively as u told all bad things abut u...not a perfect candidate for friend as i dnt think so

me: did not get u

u dont consider me a perfect candidate?

Deepa Nambiar: okk leave it...we can be good friends

me: let it be

how is puja

Deepa Nambiar: pooja is fine..enjying vacation

Sent at 18:41 on Saturday

me: r u there

Deepa Nambiar: ss

me: give ur ph no

dont worry

I feel I made u sad

Deepa Nambiar: no..

i was chatting with one of my cousn also

me: what happens u know I was in different mood

so told some rubbish things

Deepa Nambiar: its ok dear..u must have had a fight with aditi today

me: lol

typying mistake

Deepa Nambiar: i am also a housewife and 7 years into marriage i can understand

me: u r married for 7 yrs?

Deepa Nambiar: sss

me: u speak so mature

Deepa Nambiar: life experience makes us matura na

me: sometimes I feel girls are so mature

how is life anyway

Deepa Nambiar: ss..girls are dnt think

me: whats ur working time, how do u manage?

no chance of any fights, she wont speak with me today!

Deepa Nambiar: morning 8.30 i leave home then coming there is no specific time...soemtimes early sometimes late

me: who takes care of puja?

all day?

did u go andamans again?

Deepa Nambiar: no

me: so u wont give me ur phone no

Deepa Nambiar: puja afternnon she goes to her granny's house and evenign i pick her up...she is very adjusting

me: thats correct, u should

Deepa Nambiar: 09869460101

me: dont worry I wont call you!

Deepa Nambiar: why...miser man...std calls aer very costly or what

me: laughing

I think u will kill me by laughing

Deepa Nambiar: enjoyed chatting wit u...talk to aditi

and settle ur problem with her...

me: ok, dear

Deepa Nambiar: how is her training going on

me: god only knows , it seems she is mugging up

Deepa Nambiar: ss she has to mug up because medical terms will be difficult for her

me: I think u need to speak with her once

Deepa Nambiar: ss

call me when ur free on sundays

me: thik hain madamji

Deepa Nambiar: kk bye take care

its time to enter kitchen bye

me: what will u cook

if u want I will give recipe

I am a good cook

Deepa Nambiar: kkk..we usually preprae kerala dishes only\

me: but dont know ur kerala dishes

but I enjoy eating kerala food

that big rice

anyway, why so early to kitchen

Deepa Nambiar: okkk we eat small rice only..what all dishes u prepare bengali

me: u tell, i will

cooking for last 17yrs

Deepa Nambiar: i left kitchen as such n the morning little bit of utensils to clean...has to lit lamp and so many things

me: ............

it seems u need to go

Deepa Nambiar: who is looking after neel when she goes for training

ss has to log off

me: my elder sister Maitrayee is there

Deepa Nambiar: i hardly check net usually weekends i get time

kk that is good.

me: she came here for a medical chk up

Did u reply my mail?

Deepa Nambiar: i thought of replying but now i have talked to u na there is no point in replying to u

me: no u need to reply

I want to know r u angry with me

Deepa Nambiar: what...u want to show to ur wife

me: laughing

Deepa Nambiar: why should i be angry with u

me: she knows all my friends, all my life more than anyone

Deepa Nambiar: all the contents we have just chatted

kk thats cool

me: we r good friends for long time

what is ur husband?

Sent at 19:00 on Saturday

Deepa Nambiar: my husband is vinod and he is working as a Sr. HR manager in shalina laboratories a pharma compnay

me: ok

grt

Deepa Nambiar: any more details

me: but why do u go for job?

Deepa Nambiar: what si great in that being my husband

laughing

me: ?

?

Deepa Nambiar: veery bad question swarrup

me: I dont get u

Deepa Nambiar: u dnt want girls to go for job

me: i dont mean that

never

Deepa Nambiar: i told that what is great in that...when u said gr8

very rude

me: me?

Deepa Nambiar: ss u only

me: what did I say?

I dont mean to offend u anything

Deepa Nambiar: dnt take personally just kidding

me: I think my time is still running bad

Deepa Nambiar: i know that u have a big good heart

me: ?

Deepa Nambiar: u cant offend anyone

always negative

laughing

me: what did I say?

Deepa Nambiar: phir se vo question poocha to computer tod dungi mai

me: ooooooooooooooooo

Deepa Nambiar: ooooops

now i think i m rude

me: pata nehi tum sab girls computer kiyun torte ho

Deepa Nambiar: i dnt think that in college we would have talked this much also

me: yes

Deepa Nambiar: now im in touch with many friends of my school to whom i have not talked

me: I am so sad it wass not possible

Deepa Nambiar: its ok...

i must have spoken to a very guys of our class

me: u know, we r not knowing each other that good. thats why there is a communication gap

Deepa Nambiar: ss.

me: thats why u dont undersatnd me so easily

who was ur best friend?

chandru?

Deepa Nambiar: whatever i know abut u is enough

my best friends were binu and shabe

me: u know...what let me know dear

Deepa Nambiar: boyfriends u mean

me: yes

what do u know abt me?

Deepa Nambiar: no one i remember except rajshekhar to whom i talked a lot

me: really

Deepa Nambiar: AB batch boys also

me: he is sweet

Deepa Nambiar: a few

me: chandru must be

Deepa Nambiar: ss...he useed to call me sometimes

me: I dislike him

Deepa Nambiar: why ur pulling chandru

me: dont know

Deepa Nambiar: he was sweet to all girls

something happend in college days

me: with me too, allthough I was aboy

Deepa Nambiar: between u and chandru

me: never

but the gap is so big

I feel, may be chandru doesnot feel

Deepa Nambiar: i hardly spoke to other boys

me: sabina was my very close

Deepa Nambiar: ss i know that

me: she was always encouraging

Deepa Nambiar: good

u talked to her na

me: I used to feel as if I am small kid before her

she is so lovely lady, so matured

I had never had a fight with her, usually

Ramya was also very close

Deepa Nambiar: ss well said she is very matured and lovely

very sad about her

me: girls list is quietb big

Deepa Nambiar: laughing

me: K sumathi waa my best friend

that blackky

Deepa Nambiar: where is she now

kk

me: God only knows

Deepa Nambiar: but to my list no friends were there in boys

only girlfriends to whom i am still in contact a very few

me: Vandana, vinothini was and always remain like my own blood

Deepa Nambiar: sisterhood

me: they show the same affectioins all along

Deepa Nambiar: very good

me: I have also attended their marriage

Deepa Nambiar: vandana is in orkut no idea abut vinothni

kk very good

me: she is no more in contact.

Deepa Nambiar: where is vinotthini

me: bangalore

Deepa Nambiar: kk

me: but no contact

Deepa Nambiar: very bad

me: nothing to do, they are not like before .. they have family

but Vandana is always on contact

I think I hardly have anythingh that she does not know

Deepa Nambiar: sss...it is not possible to give time as before

me: yes

Deepa Nambiar: ooohhh

me: I also feel, so far so good

Deepa Nambiar: that i didnt know

me: let them be happy

Deepa Nambiar: kk

ss let their lifes be happy so that by seeing them we can be happpy

me: One very close person was Ramya PMK

hmmm

Deepa Nambiar: for ramya i feel very bad for her child

me: what happened?

I have no contact

we had a fight , we never spoke again

Deepa Nambiar: ramya manikavalli not pm ramya

me: abt pmk

Deepa Nambiar: PM ramya is in australia one son she has

me: yes

Deepa Nambiar: she is married to ramu na

me: yes

upto that I know

Deepa Nambiar: if u dnt mind can i talk to u later..

me: surely

Deepa Nambiar: has to finish work na

before somebody comes

me: thanks a lot for giving so much time

Deepa Nambiar: any guests

thanks a lot and keep in touch

me: surely

Deepa Nambiar: if i have hurt u in anyway sorry for that

dnt take things deep into heart

me: all these days I searched ur id to ask u a sorry

Deepa Nambiar: dnt be sorry

we were childish and matured at that time

now things have changed

me: becoz somewhere I hav a pain that I made u cry

for a day

Deepa Nambiar: we have good true friends it is enough for us

i dnt cry

me: I knew u cried becoz of me

Deepa Nambiar: and im not that good enough to not cry for one day also

me: ?

Deepa Nambiar: im just a common middle class woman

me: U forgive me if ever I made u cry

Deepa Nambiar: who can cry and laugh

me: I

Deepa Nambiar: leave such things swarup ur happily married and there are good things in life to remember

dnt think abut past and be sorry for that

may be at that child i was childish to cry

me: but my life would be useless if I dont get a clear certificate

Deepa Nambiar: at that time i was childish...typing mistake

me: But my feeling were true always

Deepa Nambiar: cleared from all dues

me: thank u

bye

myb eyes are tearing

I cant bear

Deepa Nambiar: bye dear and dnt carry such things in ur heart and be loving to ur lovely beautiful wife and child

me: let it be

Deepa Nambiar: what is this

me: thats call a child

Deepa Nambiar: then i will not talk to u if u still carry things like this

me: I dont carry anymore after clearence

but why did u cry that day?

Deepa Nambiar: everything is cleared na now what u want else

i dnt remember which day...did u see me crying or rajshekhar told u

me: u know I could not be friend u with felings

Binu and sabina told me , that I made u cry

long timnme back in college days

leave it

Deepa Nambiar: its okay...i dnt remember any such day...and i dnt want to remember those days also

me: thank u

Deepa Nambiar: if anything u must have told and it must have hurt me...its okay for now at this point of life i am not concerned about anything other than good friends and my family

me: I like that

be my friend forever

Deepa Nambiar: surely...i will always be there for u and ur family

dnt take that crying wala issue anymore because i feel very awkard

me: thanks alot, I remebr this day in my life

Deepa Nambiar: sure buddy

me: lol

Deepa Nambiar: thanks may be there are no gille shikawa in ur memory anymore

bye

me: call me anytime

9845179699

aditi 08065831943

Deepa Nambiar: kkk sure when time permits i want to talk to aditi also

me: thank u

Deepa Nambiar: bye

me: bye